Every item on this page was chosen by an ELLE editor. We may earn commission on some of the items you choose to buy. Mar 22, David Burton You are about to meet three men your mom would be proud to see you marry, but you won't like them from what you hear coming out of their mouths. In order to protect their identities, I'm going to say that we met working the bonobo exhibition at the San Diego Zoo. It's the kind of big, specific lie that would throw our wives off the scent. I'll share more details about them later, but for now, it's enough to know that all of us—me, and let's call them Bart, Charlie, and Johannes—are very happily married dads in our thirties; model husbands and fathers is the way the papers would describe us if we all got flattened by asteroids. To the best of my knowledge, none of them has ever cheated on his wife.
At once, we have a better idea of what they are thinking about, thanks to a recently published study all the rage the Journal of Sexual Medicine. A team of researchers at the Academe of Quebec at Trois-Rivieres asked a pool of 1, men and women, living in the province of Quebec, what they fantasized about sexually. The participants were anywhere from 18 en route for 77 years old, and the arithmetic mean age was 30 years. Though the answers are not from a culturally diverse group, they still offer an interesting sample. Of the men calculated, 1.
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